Ed,
Thanks for that. Anna beat me to it, regarding the meeting with George lll and his remark about Captain Berry. However, I have not heard of this quote of Nelson's before and it seems rather strange that he refers to 'three' right arms, including the one left to him, which was clearly missing then – or am I missing something (luckily not an arm though)!
I would think that many young officers looked up to their captains for guidance and wisdom, not only to Nelson.
In passing, I have often thought what a pity it was that Nelson's right arm were not tipped overboard off Tenerife, instead of being being placed next to a dead midshipman in his coffin (I think it was). If that were the case, I am sure someone would long since have funded had an expedition to try and find it!