Anna,
I found this notice of his death in the Gentlemen's magazine for December 24th, 1828. It gives short details of his appointments:
http://books.google.se/books?id=3Prv5fo ... &ct=result
I agree, he comes over as a likeable and active character, but then there were so many that didn't get much recognition.
Hyde Parker's promotion of lieutenants from the ships of his squadron, which of course didn't take any part in the battle was a fact. Rather than being just a disappointment, it caused justifiable anger and disbelief amongst those who had done the actual fighting! This was just another example of Hyde Parker being the wrong Admiral for the job, but which was unfortunately a political appointment. The King in particular didn't want a war with another crowned head of state, to whom he was also related, but in appointing HP he and the government seemed to completely have misread the situation, in holding out for a diplomatic solution. HP would have been the ideal candidate if that had happened! However more down to earth officers, such as Nelson, probably knew that the Danes were not the sort of people to give up without a fight, as they held rigidly to the view that the British 'stop and search' policy was illegal, and that they themselves were neutral.
That the fighting was very bloody, as you allude to over on the book thread, was largely due to the fact that the British and the Danes seemed to hold different opinions as to how to conduct a battle. The British view was that once a ship, or fighting battery in this case, had surrendered and her flag had been hauled down, she had ceased to fight. The Danes on the other hand, on many occasions renewed the fighting and rehoisted colours aboard vessels which had initially surrendered, and in many cases were actually being taken possession of. In the interrim, between them surrendering and the British boarding, these vessels then received fresh men (many idealistic students) from ashore to renew the fighting. This defiance not only caused many of the casulties on the British side, but meant that the British used excessive force and killed many more Danes than was neccessary. Nelson alluded to this in his famous letter to the Crown Prince.
In light of the above Bligh's request to Nelson might be seen as reasonable but, so far as I know, he was the only officer to approach him in this odd way.