Thank you for posting that. I have always felt rather ashamed of my unacademic, totally romantic approach to history, the delight in the trivial and unremarked, the small things that are almost forgotten, yet make the imagination leap. This can be a casual entry in a diary, a letter, an object or, as you say, a lock of hair. But I feel absolved, knowing that Simon Schama has validated this emotional response.
I was at the NMM some months ago when I came upon a letter written by Lady Hamilton to George Rose. On the spur of the moment, she had taken a small lock from the larger one Nelson had sent Horatia and wrapped it in a piece of paper on which she had written ‘Nelson’s hair’. I opened the folded paper and held in my hand a lock of Nelson’s hair! It was such a shock – not dry and dead looking – caught in the sunlight, it shone, soft and clean and fresh as a child’s.
There was a sentence in the accompanying letter that, for me, sharpened Emma’s grief and loss: the lock of hair she had taken from a letter she had just opened, but, she continues: ‘I have not had the courage to open the other which Hardy brought me, but next week, I shall’. The letter is undated, but probably written in mid-December 1805, so she had waited, this spirited, dauntless woman, preparing herself to face the awful finality of that last letter.
Strange too, how time and distance validate our intrusion into the private moments of others’ lives. A friend showed me a letter her great-grandfather had written to his girl-friend from the battlefields of the First World War. The language was stilted and the sentiments unremarkable; but he had enclosed a violet from ‘Plug Street Wood’. This was Ploegsteert Wood, a bloody and terrible place, and this little flower had grown there and still remained, its tiny petals pale, barely echoing its original vivid hue – it seemed particularly poignant to see this just at the moment when we are on a cusp of time - that cataclysm is slipping now from living memory and will soon be history.
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